On September 7, 2024, in Hubert, North Carolina, 43-year-old Paul David Sallmen was tragically killed in a domestic violence incident. Deputies from the Onslow County Sheriff's Office responded to a shooting at a residence on Glenwood Drive, where they found Sallmen suffering from gunshot wounds. Despite life-saving efforts, he was pronounced dead at the scene.
The investigation identified 30-year-old Ryan J. Whalen as the suspect. Whalen was located by Swansboro police officers and North Carolina State Highway Patrol troopers near Buckhaven Road and Sandridge Road. As officers approached his vehicle, they heard a gunshot and discovered Whalen deceased inside from an apparent self-inflicted gunshot wound.
Authorities determined that the incident stemmed from domestic violence. Whalen had previously been in a relationship with a woman who was now involved with Sallmen. It appears that Whalen was angered by this new relationship, leading to the tragic events.
Sallmen was remembered as a kind and dedicated father and grandfather, known for his generosity and willingness to help others. He was a construction superintendent who loved spending time outdoors, especially fishing and duck hunting. His sudden death has left a significant void in the lives of his family and community.
In the wake of this tragedy, fundraising efforts were initiated to support Sallmen's family, particularly his children, in covering funeral expenses and future needs. The community has rallied to honor his memory and provide assistance during this difficult time.
