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"I’ve been reading through the details of what happened to Mary Swift, and I can’t stop thinking about her kids." What about his kids because that is my father who was my whole world, and I was 7 years old when this happened. I had just talked to him on the phone not even an hour before this happened, and he was trying to come home. Mary had interrupted the phone call threatening my mother, my brother, and I, that she would hurt us if he was to come home to us. She had threatened my mother for months and attempted to cut all communication between my father and his family. My life has been hell for me mentally and emotionally without my father physically in my life, and that the only ways I can even talk to my dad is a maybe weekly phone call, by mail, or a 15- or 30-minute video visit, and that's if I have the money. The dreams that were really nightmares of him walking through the door finally coming home and crying in my sleep to waking up and sobbing knowing it wouldn't be a reality still happen more times than not. My father knows everything about my siblings; I mean he had to give up 3 of his own and 1 he treated like his own because of their living conditions with their mother and how she was treating them. He's the one that called CPS/DCS knowing he might not get custody of them. My father has his issues/mental issues, but he would do anything for his family even if that meant giving away his freedom or his life. Maybe before don't judge other's choices without knowing their true reason. “Don’t judge people for the choices they make when you don’t know the options they had to choose from.”
Once Again for Edward Lay's youngest child/daughter (20 years old;21 in about 30 days) -- That is my father who was my whole world, and I was 7 years old when this happened. I had just talked to him on the phone not even an hour before this happened, and he was trying to come home. Mary had interrupted the phone call threatening my mother, my brother, and I, that she would hurt us if he was to come home to us. She had threatened my mother for months and attempted to cut all communication between my father and his family. My life has been hell for me mentally and emotionally without my father physically in my life, and that the only ways I can even talk to my dad is a maybe weekly phone call, by mail, or a 15- or 30-minute video visit, and that's if I have the money. The dreams that were really nightmares of him walking through the door finally coming home and crying in my sleep to waking up and sobbing knowing it wouldn't be a reality still happen more times than not. My father knows everything about my siblings; I mean he had to give up 3 of his own and 1 he treated like his own because of their living conditions with their mother and how she was treating them. He's the one that called CPS/DCS knowing he might not get custody of them. My father has his issues/mental issues, but he would do anything for his family even if that meant giving away his freedom or his life. Maybe before don't judge other's choices without knowing their true reason. “Don’t judge people for the choices they make when you don’t know the options they had to choose from.”
Once Again for Edward Lay's youngest child/daughter (20 years old;21 in about 30 days) -- That is my father who was my whole world, and I was 7 years old when this happened. I had just talked to him on the phone not even an hour before this happened, and he was trying to come home. Mary had interrupted the phone call threatening my mother, my brother, and I, that she would hurt us if he was to come home to us. She had threatened my mother for months and attempted to cut all communication between my father and his family. My life has been hell for me mentally and emotionally without my father physically in my life, and that the only ways I can even talk to my dad is a maybe weekly phone call, by mail, or a 15- or 30-minute video visit, and that's if I have the money. The dreams that were really nightmares of him walking through the door finally coming home and crying in my sleep to waking up and sobbing knowing it wouldn't be a reality still happen more times than not. My father knows everything about my siblings; I mean he had to give up 3 of his own and 1 he treated like his own because of their living conditions with their mother and how she was treating them. He's the one that called CPS/DCS knowing he might not get custody of them. My father has his issues/mental issues, but he would do anything for his family even if that meant giving away his freedom or his life. Maybe before don't judge other's choices without knowing their true reason. “Don’t judge people for the choices they make when you don’t know the options they had to choose from.”