Ryan Brent Pate, a 37-year-old male from Oak Grove, Missouri, died in early May 2022 in what was investigated as a possible murder-suicide. Remembered as a free spirit with an infectious laugh and a penchant for giving the best hugs, Pate was a 2003 graduate of Oak Grove High School. He was known for his eclectic style, often seen in overalls, tie-dyed shirts, and unique shoes.
In the days following his death, family members recalled Pate as someone who was always there for his friends
in their darkest moments. They believe he was attempting to help a friend in crisis on the day he died. According to his family, investigators informed them that Pate was shot in his car while with this friend. The Jackson County Sheriff's Office confirmed that two men had died but did not immediately release further details, citing an ongoing investigation.
Those who knew Ryan described him as a man who loved his family and friends deeply. He had a passion for the outdoors, enjoying activities like camping and disc golf. He was also an avid fan of all types of music, concerts, movies, and the Pittsburg Steelers. His unexpected death left his family and a wide circle of friends in shock, grappling with the sudden loss of a man they described as having an unmatched ability to make people feel special. As of late May 2022, the investigation into the deaths of Ryan Pate and the other individual was still active, and no official conclusions regarding suspects or the final determination of the incident had been publicly released.
