Heidi DeCarlo, a 43-year-old woman from North Port, Florida, tragically died on October 1, 2014, in what authorities believe to be a murder-suicide. Heidi DeCarlo, who was estranged from her husband, Bush Bena, 53, was found dead alongside him in their North Port home. The North Port Police Department responded to a 911 call reporting a domestic disturbance with shots fired at around 9:06 a.m. Upon arrival, officers discovered the bodies of Heidi DeCarlo and Bush Bena.
The police have not released additional details about the shooting, but it is believed that Bena shot DeCarlo before taking his own life.
Heidi DeCarlo, who would have turned 44 just days after her death, was remembered by friends and family as a kind and generous person. She had a close relationship with her cousin, Valerie Carpenter, and was described as having a heart of gold by Sandra Davis Morris, a family friend who had known her for over a decade. DeCarlo's death shocked those who knew her, as she was seen as a loving and devoted individual. The couple had been living apart, with Bena frequently traveling to Massachusetts for work and to see his children from a previous marriage.
The investigation into the deaths of Heidi DeCarlo and Bush Bena is ongoing, with authorities treating the case as a murder-suicide. No arrests have been made, and there are no other suspects involved. The incident has left the community and DeCarlo's loved ones reeling, as they try to come to terms with the sudden and tragic loss. Friends from DeCarlo's childhood in Ipswich, Massachusetts, also expressed their grief and disbelief at the news, remembering her as a fun-loving and happy person.
This tragic event highlights the devastating impact of domestic violence and the importance of seeking help in troubled relationships. Heidi DeCarlo's death serves as a reminder of the need for support systems and resources for individuals facing domestic issues. The community continues to mourn the loss of a beloved member, while authorities work to piece together the circumstances leading up to the tragic incident.
