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I can attest, that yes, there were several disagreements over the years between her and Daniel. He wanted to remain in the home due to the fact that 1. it was his childhood home. 2. It was the home of his grandparents. and 3. he felt entitled to it.
However, Daniel's father was adamant that it did not fall into his hands. He wanted Debra to keep the house. Debra had tried to sell it to him multiple times but every time he was supposed to come up with the money, some excuse always came up. She eventually got tired of the arguing and his blatant disregard for helping her with the mortgage, bills, and other expenses that she eventually moved out to a place of her own.
She was desperately trying to go on with her life and allow him to keep the home. She had even planned to sell the home to him for quite less than it's value and give him half of the money ( I know this for a fact as I spoken with her). She only wanted it all to end, the arguing, the blatant disrespect, etc.
While I will never wrap my head around why on earth he decided to take her life on that fateful day, I don't know. I've grappled with the question a million times over. Were there signs I might had missed. Was there messages she was trying to tell me? I don't know. All I know is every day, it doesn't get any easier. I miss her and always will.
I wrestle with these thoughts daily. I wonder if only. I wonder if only that day if I had just called the police to check on her. If only that day... but It is too late for that.
I can attest that there were some things that all of us were aware of, the arguing, the disputes, but I don't think we'd ever thought it would come down to this. That I'd be sitting here writing these words. Speaking these words. Advocating for her. I still can't wrap my head around it.
I knew that she and him had difficulties. I knew she wanted to sell the house to him and give him half of the money back. I know that he wanted to remain in the home because it was 1. his childhood home, 2. his grandparents home and 3. he felt entitled to it. I also know that over time, the disagreements and him constantly failing to help with the mortgage, bills, and other responsibilities led to her eventually moving out to her own place. I can also attest that his father did not want him to get the house and that's the reason she owned the home.
She was a kind soul and gave him many chances to buy the house, but every time he was supposed to come up with the money, he'd have some excuse.
His last excuse was that his boss (a millionaire) was coming from South Carolina and was looking to buy a boat. He (the alleged boss) was going to buy the house for Daniel.
I recall telling her (Debra), "Do you hear how that sounds? It sounds off. It sounds suspicious. I think he's lying to you and made up a ludicrous story.." . I told her "Things just aren't adding up. Like, why would a millionaire want to buy a little house ? And why is he coming all the way from SC just to buy a boat and a little house?"
I didn't fall for the story just like I didn't fall for all his excuses.
I wish to goodness, I was not sitting here today, having to tell her story like this.
I wish to goodness, I didn't have to ache in my heart with the loss of her.
But, in her honor, I advocate for her. I advocate against her killer. I will always stand up to that man and never let him forget what he did to us.
What an entitled POS. Obviously looking at things from his own perspective and not being a realist. What did he expect? She would just give the house to him? And when it really came down to it and she needed to actually sell the place he lashed out at her like a petulant child and took her life over what? A house? He needs to rot in jail.
I too have wondered, exactly what he expected to happen.
My family and I will never understand it. The lies he made up. The absence of remorse when he was caught. The arrogance of dragging out the trial when all evidence was damning against him.
Oh yes, the evidence in itself spoke volumes! He even admitted on camera that he "killed my stepmom". Then he realized his mistake and stop talking but trust me that was enough. That and loads of text messages between her and family members, but the ticket was his own text stating that he was never going to give up the house. Inside the house were trash bags filled up with clothes and other items like it was pre-meditated. Oh yes, that part of the story wasn't told in the news. Or the way there was multiple boxes of bullets in the house.
Yes, his father was a hunter (skilled archer) and yes, they (Danny sr. and Daniel both grew up with guns), Debra was not a fan of it. Even when Danny Sr. made her carry a gun for safety, it was not something she enjoyed doing.
Debra had wanted to move on with her life. Get a little yorkie or lap dog, move into a condo in Tucker, spend more time with her two grandchildren and just enjoy the remainder of her days here. Sadly, he took that from her. He took it from her and her beloved family.
I wish she could have lived that dream. I am so sorry that was taken from her and her family. She deserved so much better than that.
I know that her family feels like more justice should have been served, that 30 years is simply not enough especially when he will get the chance at parole.
I know for a fact that her immediate family still mourns her loss.
I also know that her daughter continues to tell Debra's story in hopes that perhaps it can help prevent another murder from occurring. She is a member of many groups for victims and also advocates.
I know that her family feels like more justice should have been served, that 30 years is simply not enough especially when he will get the chance at parole.
I know for a fact that her immediate family still mourns her loss.
I also know that her daughter continues to tell Debra's story in hopes that perhaps it can help prevent another murder from occurring. She is a member of many groups for victims and also advocates.
I know that her family feels like more justice should have been served, that 30 years is simply not enough especially when he will get the chance at parole.
I know for a fact that her immediate family still mourns her loss.
I also know that her daughter continues to tell Debra's story in hopes that perhaps it can help prevent another murder from occurring. She is a member of many groups for victims and also advocates.
I too have wondered, exactly what he expected to happen.
My family and I will never understand it. The lies he made up. The absence of remorse when he was caught. The arrogance of dragging out the trial when all evidence was damning against him.
Oh yes, the evidence in itself spoke volumes! He even admitted on camera that he killed my stepmom. Then he realized his mistake and stop talking but trust me that was enough. That and loads of text messages between her and family members, but the ticket was his own text stating that he was never going to give up the house. Inside the house were trash bags filled up with clothes and other items like it was pre-meditated. Oh yes, that part of the story was not told in the news. Or the way there was multiple boxes of bullets in the house.
Yes, his father was a hunter skilled archer and yes, they Danny sr. and Daniel both grew up with guns, Debra was not a fan of it. Even when Danny Sr. made her carry a gun for safety, it was not something she enjoyed doing.
Debra had wanted to move on with her life. Get a little yorkie or lap dog, move into a condo in Tucker, spend more time with her two grandchildren and just enjoy the remainder of her days here. Sadly, he took that from her. He took it from her and her beloved family.