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I've been reading through the details of Ethel May Durkin's case, and something that really stands out to me is the role of Kathy Wagner, the health aide who worked under Richard Eberling's questionable influence. It's terrifying to think about the position she was in—caring for someone so vulnerable with a man like Eberling calling the shots. I can't imagine the fear or ethical dilemmas Wagner might have faced if Eberling was open enough to brag about his violent tendencies to her. Sure, Wagner testified about Eberling's confessions, but I keep thinking about the emotional toll it must have taken on her. Her testimony was crucial, but it seems like a heavy burden to carry such knowledge, especially knowing what might happen to Ethel. It’s heartbreaking to think about how Eberling used his charm and manipulation to get so close to the people around Ethel. It makes me wonder if Wagner considered going to the authorities before Eberling confessed or if she doubted herself or feared not being believed. Anyone else have thoughts on what Wagner’s experiences might say about the broader challenges faced by caregivers witnessing abuse but feeling powerless to stop it? It's such a daunting situation, especially when the abuser seems to hold all the control.
